Interview with Aimee MacDonald, StFX’s Gender and Diversity Advisor
/Since it is Pride Month at StFX, I decided to speak with Aimee MacDonald who is StFX’s Gender and Diversity Advisor. Aimee grew up in Cape Breton and went to StFX herself, she has been married to her wife for five years and they have two children together, a 14-year-old daughter and her three-year-old son.
Aimee wanted this job for many years, being a queer person herself she saw the challenges she has faced throughout her life. When she came out, she had a community that supported her, and she understands that not everyone has the same experience. Aimee wanted to give support to people and wanted people in the community to know that they are not alone.
Aimee’s role as StFX’s Gender and Diversity Advisor is very diverse, she advocates for students who fall into the 2SLGBTQIA+ community, she provides necessary resources for students that are culturally relevant to help them succeed both academically and socially, and she educates the campus community on current issues that the 2SLGBTQIA+ community is facing.
Aimee says that to her pride means being able to be together as a community, being visible, being safe, remembering those who paved the way for her to be able to live her life the way she lives it, and it also means people are free to be loved and to love somebody else without fear.
So far there has been several activities throughout pride month at StFX. Aimee says they’ve had a flag raising, a vigil where the community came together to remember the siblings they have lost and recognize their contribution to the 2SLGBTQIA+ community, trivia night, a ‘spill the tea’ activity by Dr. Chris Fraser, activities with the StFX art gallery, and of course the popular sex toy bingo! Once there is less restrictions Aimee is hoping to turn their tradition of a rainbow party that normally happens at the end of pride month to a queer prom!
Students who are not a part of X-Pride or the 2SLGBTQIA+ community are still welcome to attend events if they come with an open mind. Students and staff should call out misgendering, not allow for homophobic and transphobic comments, and stand up to bullying, the more students who do this the less it will happen, it is important as students to be active allies!
Aimee concluded by saying “everyone experiences the community in their own way no matter how they identify. Gender identity, sexuality, is all fluid people change and that's okay. My role is to support people in helping them understand themselves and understand the resources that are available to them, so no matter who you are you have a community in my office, within X-Pride executives and in X-Pride society. We are much larger than people know, and I think the more people that come together the bigger, stronger and more visible the community will be.”